Wednesday, November 5, 2008


Borrowed from

The Practical

Marriage offers 1,138 Federal benefits and responsibilities, not including hundreds more offered by every state.
  • In times of crisis, spouses have hospital visitation rights and can make medical decisions in event of illness or disability of their spouse.
  • Employers offer spouses sick leave, bereavement leave, access to health insurance and pension
  • The law provides certain automatic rights to a person's spouse regardless of whether or not a will exists.
  • Married couples in elderly care facilities are generally not separated unless one spouse's health dictates hospitalization or special care.
  • The dissolution of a marriage requires a determination of property distribution, award of child custody and support and spousal support. Absent divorce, there is no uniform system for sorting out the ending of a relationship.
The Finances
Financial issues are complex and challenging, no matter the couple. And when home ownership, kids and other assets are a part of the equation, planning for the present and especially the future is even more critical for greater security.
  • Married couples are permitted to give an unlimited amount of gifts to each other without being taxed.
  • The law presumes that a married couple with both names on the title to their home owns the property as "tenants by the entirety."
  • A married couple, by statute, has creditor protection of their marital home.
  • Many married people are entitled to financial benefits relating to their spouses, such as disability, pension and social security benefits.
  • With marriage, a couple has the right to be treated as an economic unit and to file joint tax returns (and pay the marriage penalty), and obtain joint health, home and auto insurance policies.
  • When a spouse dies, there is no need to prove ownership of every item in the household for taxable purposes.
Protecting Children
  • A child who grows up with married parents benefits from the fact that his or her parents' relationship is recognized by law and receives legal protections.
  • Spouses are generally entitled to joint child custody and visitation upon divorce (and bear an obligation to pay child support).
  • The mark of a strong family and healthy children is having parents who are nurturing, caring, and loving. Parents should be judged on their ability to parent, not by their age, race, religion, gender, disability, sexual orientation or gender identity. To read more about this go to:
The Healthy Advantage
Studies show that people who are married tend to live longer and lead healthier lives.
  • For adults, a stable, happy marriage is the best protector against illness and premature death. Decades of research have clearly established these links. (Burman & Margolin, 1992; Dawson, 1991; Verbrugge, 1979).
  • Studies on marriages have found that married people live longer, have higher incomes and wealth, engage less in risky behaviors, eat more healthily, and have fewer psychological problems than unmarried people. (Waite, Linda J. "Why Marriage Matters." Strengthening Marriage Roundtable. Washington, DC, June 1997)
  • Research shows that unmarried couples have lower levels of happiness and well-being than married couples. (Popenoe, David and Dafoe Whitehead, Barbara, USA Today, July, 2000) A recent study shows that denying same-sex couples the right to marry has a negative impact on their mental health.
I Do, But I can't: The impact of marriage denial on the mental health of sexual citizenship of Lesbians and Gay Men in the United States (Herdt, G. & Kertzner, R. 2006).