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Sunday, October 19, 2014

LGBTQ+ MUST CARE!



“Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly.”
― Martin Luther King Jr., Letter from the Birmingham Jail

In solidarity with The National Day of Protest this Wednesday October 22, please join the LGBTQ+ community for a conversation on why we should care about Ferguson.

LGBTQ+ & Black Oppression: Why We Should All Care About Ferguson
Location: Black Space, 2847 Cherokee St, St Louis, MO 63118
Time: 6-8pm

Contributors:
Ashley Yates with Millennial Activists United
http://millennialau.tumblr.com/

Ashton Rome with Socialist Alternative
http://www.socialistalternative.org/

Ed Reggi with ShowMeNoHate
http://www.showmenohate.com/ 

“One very tangible way it [Ferguson] affects the Queer Community is in the issue of intersectionality. LGBTQAIP people are not just white. This community is unique in that we are made up of an incredibly diverse group of people. According to polling done in 2012, 33% of LGBT people are people of color. Those of us who are not people of color tend to forget that there are LGBTQAIP people in every different culture, race, and class. We are looked to as the community of acceptance, and we constantly demanding equality. But equality is not a reality if it is only being granted to one group of people. We cannot ignore the injustices happening around us while we demand the freedom to live our lives peacefully. These issues are linked. They are not isolated from each other. Stories like CeCe McDonald’s illustrate where homophobia and transphobia meet racism and prove that the attitudes perpetuating racism are often held by the same people displaying hatred for the Queer Community.”

- An excerpt from Anthony Doubek’s reaction to Ferguson. Read full story:
http://boxersandbinders.com/2014/08/why-the-queer-community-should-care-about-ferguson-mo.html

Read background on CeCe McDonald:
http://www.rollingstone.com/culture/news/the-transgender-crucible-20140730

Wednesday, October 8, 2014

COMING OUT DAY, JUSTICE FOR ALL

Original Artwork (c) Keith Haring 1988
BE SURE TO CLICK ON OUR FACBEOOK EVENT

National Coming Out Day is an internationally observed civil awareness day celebrating individuals who publicly identify as a gender or sexual minority and is observed annually by members of the LGBTQ+ community and allies.

This year October 11 is also when the nation comes to Ferguson/St. Louis to demand justice for Mike Brown and an end to the crisis of discriminatory and violent policing nationwide. On Saturday October 11, we "Come Out for Justice!" and march in solidarity with our Black and Brown community, to raise our voices for a criminal justice system that honors the lives, safety, and dignity of all communities. “Black Lives Matter!” Martin Luther King, Jr. so poignantly stated, “Injustice anywhere, is a threat to justice everywhere.”

**** LOCATION HAS CHANGED ***
Saturday, October 11, 10:00am the Justice for All national march and rally begins at Memorial Plaza Park, 14th Street and Market (across from Peabody Opera House) and march to the Old Courthouse, 11 N 4th St, St Louis, MO 63102.

Around Noon, protesters will rally at Kiener Plaza, 500 Chestnut St, St Louis, MO 63101, featuring many leaders from the #Ferguson movement and around the country.

(See http://fergusonoctober.com/ for details.)

CALLING ALL VOLUNTEERS!
The St. Louis LGBTQ+ community can help by volunteering as: Marshalls, Medics, De-escalation, Mobilization Ambassadors, and Hospitality. If you are interested in any of these roles please click here http://bit.ly/comingout4justice to sign-up.

Schedule of other events for the week:
Clayton, MO - Friday, October 10, 3:00pm - The Weekend of Resistance will start with “Justice Now,” a march and rally outside Prosecutor Bob McCulloch’s office in Clayton to call for him to step aside from the case against Darren Wilson and allow a special prosecutor to be appointed. http://fergusonoctober.com/

Ferguson, MO - Sunday, October 12: “The Hip Hop and Hope day of action,” will feature a block party hosted by local hip-hop artists, a mass meeting organized by faith leaders in the tradition of the Civil Rights movement with a keynote from Dr. Cornel West at St. Louis Chaifetz Arena. http://fergusonoctober.com/

St. Louis, MO - Monday, October 13: Taking their cue from the “Moral Monday,” movement in the South, activists and faith leaders will participate in civil disobedience actions around the St. Louis region. http://fergusonoctober.com/

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

KSDK & JOE HIPPERSON

One week ago on Monday June 20th, St. Louis NBC affiliate KSDK Channel 5 aired an "I'm Just Sayin' video" featuring KTRS 550AM wannabe shock jock radio host Joe Hipperson. The quick video piece has Mr. Hipperson defending Tracy Morgan who one-week prior suggested violence against the gay community. Hipperson started his video off saying that he didn't disagree with what Tracy Morgan said about homosexuals; rather, he disagreed that Morgan actually apologized for saying it. (You read that correctly.) Watch Hipperson for yourself:

First off, Hipperson uses the classic "call to the homophobe" by using the term, "homosexual jokes" when leading with his segment. This term is typically used in a context to signal your homophobic base. Shame on Hipperson for making this about the LGBT community and not about what is should be, "safety of kids," mainly Morgan's young son who Morgan said he'd stab. This is not about Eddie Murphy or Richard Prior. This is not about LGBT community vs. the Black comedians Mr. Hipperson; however, thanks for making it look that way. Incidentally, if KSDK or Hipperson actually did some fact checking instead of cranking the hate-machine, they would of realized that Eddie Murphy did apologize for his anti-gay routine.

The next insulting part of Hipperson's video was that he actually says he "didn't disagree what Tracy Morgan said." Let me refresh Mr. Hipperson and KSDK what Tracy Morgan actually said. Tracy Morgan during his June 3rd Nashville stand-up comedy show, insulted dozens of audiences members when Morgan suggested that stabbing his own son would be appropriate if his son came home stating he was gay. Click here for entire story.

Joe Hipperson then follows his homophobic stance by attacking the entire LGBT community, with some cockeyed theory that the LGBT community isn't really a minority. Hipperson suggests the LGBT community is actually the majority with such power that we only pretend to be a minority when it suits us.

Does this even make logical sense?

Dear Joe Hipperson, is that why LGBT citizens are treated like second-class people? Is that why the Missouri Constitution and some other 30 states don't recognize same-sex marriages? Or is that why LGBT employees can be fired because they are homosexual?

Would KSDK have aired this story if Joe said what he said about homosexuals and instead said, "the Jews?"

Joe Hipperson takes a play right out of the KKK 1950 Playbook. Just when southern blacks were speaking up and demanding their right to vote, the klan decided it was way too much. That's when the klan cleverly marketed the idea that giving black Americans the right to vote could make them super powerful one day. Never mind those hoses, dogs, bullets, nooses, and bats that the real majority held, Mr. Hipperson.

Never mind that the entire crew over at NBC's 30 Rock have all come out demanding and apologizing for Morgan's hateful remarks.

Never mind that Chris Rock and other former SNL cast members have all come out denouncing Morgan's hateful words in disguise of comedy.

Never mind that Eddie Murphy did actually apologize for his anti-gay and anti-AIDS statements.

And never mind that Tracy Morgan himself has publicly apologized for his hateful words. And Morgan is currently on a anti-gay apology tour across this country.




All of this TRUTH is apparently not enough for the homophobic hateful Joe Hipperson and apparently was not enough for KSDK to not air Hipperson's vile anti-gay rhetoric. Shame on KSDK for allowing this homophobic fool to continue his rubbish and pass it off as anything worthy for television. Who is going to make an "I'm Just Sayin' video" next, Fred Phelps?

Tonight, Monday June 27th, KSDK aired an intelligent video response by Brandon Gray who ShowMeNoHate feels addressed all the right issues against the homophobe Joe Hipperson.

Finally, the most ironic part about homophobe Joe Hipperson can be summed up in this photo:


That's right folks, Mr. Hipperson and his cool hip wife both modeled over one-year ago for the unofficial St. Louis NOH8 photo campaign. How fitting that both Joe and his wife are also unofficially haters of the LGBT community.

Please call KSDK 314-421-5055 and ask to speak to the General Manager in regards to a Joe Hipperson's vile homophobic remarks. Of course we understand that Hipperson has the right to freedom of speech and we understand that the views expressed by "I'm Just Sayin' video" segments are not the views of KSDK. Tell the GM you understand all of that; however, ask the GM if Hipperson could have said the things he said about Jews, Women, Blacks or Muslims? Does KSDK support the right to promote the killing of those minority groups?

Then call back and ask to speak to their Community Relations department. Explain that community relations start with accepting the safety for the LGBT community and not promoting people who support the stabbing of gay teens like Joe Hipperson said.

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

VICTORY FOR JUSTICE



Good news!

Last night the University City Mayor and Council decided unanimously to kill the bill. The first motion was to table the bill forever, but then Councilman Price decided to amend his motion to actually say, "kill the 9112 bill" going forward.

Thank you to all the ShowMeNoHate members who packed the basement of University City's City Hall. We had over 50 people in the room and another 25 outside.

Thank you to Regional Arts Commission, ACLU of Eastern Missouri, Chris Hartman of the Fairness Campaign, Beyond Housing, Community Arts Training Fellows, FowardSTL, NAACP, Mercantile Library at UMSL, Cameron Sanders, Loop Business District, Terry Artis and many others who supported this effort to kill Bill 9112.

Ed Reggi will be speaking on 90.7FM St. Louis Public Radio NPR today at 11am. Make sure you tune in and call in.

Monday, June 6, 2011

UNIVERSITY CITY PULLS A 'FAST ONE' ON THE PUBLIC


In a sudden turn, for yet another strange move made by the University City elected officials, Mayor Shelley Welsch and the Council members -- decide to disregard the public's opinion and ignore their own words.

On Monday May 23, University City Council met inside City Hall and (for the second time) postponed a vote on Bill 9112, also known as "no interfering with / or standing on the sidewalks" law. The public who attended were (again) disappointed at the Council's decision to reschedule their vote; however, many residents just accepting the new date of Monday June 13 at 6:30pm.

In a bizarre move, the Mayor and the Council have "secretly" and with little notice given to the public, have decided to hold a Special Session on Monday June 6 at 6:00pm.

The thin agenda lists only 3 items to be covered:

1. Bill 9112 - An ordinance amending Chapter 9.08 of University City Municipal Code, relating to offenses against public peace and decency, by enacting therein a new section to be known as "Section 9.08.042 obstructing or interfering with use of sidewalks and streets", and providing a penalty.

2. Budget Memo

3. Council Rules and Order of Procedure

The Special Session notice was posted on the bulletin board located in the basement of City Hall, which according to City's Charter, meets the minimum requirements when calling for a "Special Session." Unfortunately, even though it's completely legal for the Mayor and Council to throw together such a quick meeting; it does not seem transparent or in good faith. Again, in their own words spoken on May 23, the Council postponed the vote and all further discussion of Bill 9112 to the next scheduled City Council Meeting on Monday June 13 at 6:30pm.

ShowMeNoHate's founder Ed Reggi demands to know why the sudden change?

He believes it serves one purpose and one purpose only--to deceive the good people of University City by passing a law that has been deemed Unconstitutional by the ACLU of Eastern Missouri and Fairness Campaign in Louisville, Kentucky.

"To trick the public, by passing this extremely controversial Bill; and to pass it behind the backs of the media and the public, is very sad. Their actions are disappointing. An it continues to show that Mayor Welsh and her Council, are not honest lawmakers," said Reggi on Sunday evening shortly after he got an email about the special meeting.

Reggi is calling for accountability. He wants the public to ask the entire University City Council the following questions:
  • Why can't Bill 9112 wait one more week to be heard in front of the public, as scheduled?
  • Why call for the "Special Session" on June 6 at 6pm in the Emergency Operations Center and not the 5th floor of City Hall?
  • Why not post information about the June 6 "Special Session" on the official University City website?
  • Why are the Police Chief and City Manager refusing to fully explain why Bill 9112 is needed over the enforcement of current University City laws. Ordinances which include criminalizing: theft, panhandling, harassment, unlawful assembly, noise, disturbing the peace, and failure to comply with an officer?

Mayor
Shelley Welsch
Mayor@ucitymo.org
314- 505-8606

Ward 1 Council Members
Terry Crow
terry@cttlaw.net
crow@cttlaw.net
314-918-0045, ext 2

Stephen Kraft
kraftstephene@gmail.com
314-863-1136

Ward 2 Council Members
Michael Glickert
lmglickert@yahoo.com
314-863-1812

Lynn Ricci
ricci.ucity@gmail.com
314-725-9090

Ward 3 Council Members
Byron Price
pricebyron@hotmail.com
314-726-2953

Arthur Sharp
qforlifeasj@att.net
314-721-5954

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

MCC JOPLIN NEEDS HELP - UPDATED 5/25 10PM


THEY STILL NEED ITEMS.
DO NOT BELIEVE REPORTS THAT SAY OTHERWISE.

Last Sunday, Joplin, MO, a city about 60 miles west of Springfield in Southwest Missouri, was destroyed by a tornado. They are still assessing the damage, but it is already clear the damage is devastating. You can follow the updates of the assessment and see photos and videos here.

Like many other organizations, PROMO and Show Me No Hate are coordinating a statewide effort to collect donations and supplies* to help Joplin.

The LGBT community was directly affected in Joplin, including the loss of the Unity/Spirit of Christ Metropolitan Community Church (SOC-MCC of Joplin), the LGBT-affirming church in Joplin. When the tornado struck the church, the congregation was holding a Sunday evening service. Luckily, they were able to reach the basement and are safe and have received medical care, but the church building is gone, as well as many of the congregation members' homes, including the home of the pastor and his partner.

Please click here to make a donation to help the LGBT community in Joplin. 100% of the proceeds raised through this effort will go directly to the Unity/Spirit of Christ Metropolitan Church of Joplin, where LGBT individuals and allies can receive the supplies. You can drop off supplies at one of the following collection sites. Each of these collection sites has committed to collecting supplies to go directly to SOC-MCC of Joplin.


Supplies Needed - UPDATED 5/25 10PM
Toiletries
Underwear/socks
Canned cat/dog food
Cleaning supplies.

Also, wide shovels, work gloves, trash bags, dust masks, sunblock, bug spray, anything that would be helpful in clearing debris.

GLO Center 518 E Commercial Street Springfield
417-869-3978
Tue, Wed, Fri or
call to confirm someone is there

Spirit of Hope MCC 3801 Wyandotte Street Kansas City
816-931-0750
LGCCKC LGCCKC Pride Booth will
be a collection site June 4-5 Kansas City lgcckcinfo@gmail.com

Central Reform Congregation, 5020 Waterman Blvd St. Louis MO
Wednesday-Thursday – 9am-5pm
Friday – 9am-9pm
Saturday – 9am-3pm
Sunday-Monday closed
Tuesday – 9-noon (after noon we will start sorting!)

Show Me No Hate
Use the following location - Mokabe's Coffee House
8am to 12 midnight
3606 Arsenal St
St Louis, MO 63116-4801
(314) 865-2009

For more drop off info or for a pick up call
ShowMeNoHate hotline 314-282-LGBT

Sunday, May 22, 2011

WE GAVE THEM HOPE



Today, I marched for Harvey Milk.

As I looked at our crowd of walkers, I saw nothing but different faces, ages, sizes, shapes, clothing, accents, gender, sexual orientation, race, religions and economic class. Today, Sunday May 22 2011, St. Louis celebrated Harvey Milk's birthday by marching from The Grove district all the way east to St. Louis City Hall. Nearly 5 miles in total did we march for Harvey. What was more impressive was the amount of people who gathered early at the beginning of our march, the new location for the LGBT Center of St. Louis. They all came to support a place they want to call "HOPE" not just home.

I knew it the moment I met the crowd of folks standing outside of the center, that Harvey was smiling down on us. Harvey would have not changed one thing today. It was the perfect spot to start a march, in our city and in honor of this leader's legacy. Often, Harvey Milk opened us his own personal Castro district camera shop doors to host random meetings. Many times the rallies or Pride parades that took happened at night, were organized during the afternoon in Milk's very own home. This is the future of our very own LGBT Center. What will our center's sofa's and space bring to our city next? Harvey new darn well about community organizing and it starts with an invitation and then making a relationship. Today, Harvey shook everyone's hand who peeked through the doors of 4337 Manchester Avenue. I truly felt his spirit in that space.

The weather was just perfect and I would not change one thing about today.

As we walked down Manchester Avenue, we looked at the sidewalks of LGBTQ friendly businesses smile back at us. They waved from bars, shops and clubs that have called the Grove home for years. And then we found ourselves under the Time Square-esque "Grove" neon sign and I knew we were leaving our comfort zone. I thought, "will the group think I am nuts?"

But onward Queer soldiers we marched.

"When I say Harvey you say Milk... Harvey (MILK) - Harvey (MILK) - Harvey (MILK)..." echoed the crossover from Manchester Avenue to Chouteau Avenue.

That's when I noticed something very different this year than last year's march. There were nearly no cars passing us who cursed us being there. Gone were the, "Go home faggots," or "Shut up and get a job," jabs. For the most part, we shared the road with kind, considerate and supportive drivers who seemed to enjoy waiting for our march to make its way. I clearly watch parents slide down their automatic car windows so children in the back seat can watch us. I waved to about 40 kids who waved right back at us. Graduation ready families looked out of their rental cars and looked at our 20 foot rainbow flag -- paused -- and then pressed on their car horns in full support of our march for Harvey.

Mid-way of our walking route, around Jefferson and Chouteau, I became "hopeful." I immediately thought of Harvey's words about giving people "hope." Then I thought I should give them extra hope because we have made it 2 miles. I felt this is especially important if you are going to ask 100 people to march on a Sunday afternoon, you know, give them hope to keep moving. It was nice to give them inspiring words on my megaphone; however, it was even more powerful to watch the crowd give each other inspiring words on the megaphone. This march I made a conscience effort to hand over the megaphone to people who was inspired by Harvey. Walkers helped each other to keep walking; to keep the love; to preach equality and justice.

Our route took us directly through a kaleidoscope of city streets; over old and new concrete bridges; around the edges of quiet forgotten industrial businesses; and right into the neighborhoods plagued by years and years of blight. There's something about crossing that half-way point and seeing the Arch in the distance that gave me pause. I felt like I saw Harvey sitting on top of our silver Arch, looking directly at us. I really saw Harvey's face and he looked happy, smiling, laughing and alive.

Harvey Milk didn't look bad for 81 - really.

Harvey was happy to see all the walkers chanting his words. And I believe what made him most happy was that we remembered him without any big fanfares. It's like I saw him peek. No parade floats. No shirtless men tossing rainbow beads. We didn't walk on Main Street; rather, we honored Harvey in the places where he would walk -- where the forgotten live, work and play. This is why we march for Harvey along the silent Chouteau Avenue and not Market Street, or Lindell, or even Big Bend. Milk was about walking in the trenches, giving people who needed hope the most. Sending the message of, "love thy neighbor," where neighbors need loving. And again how fitting today to take our first marching step at the home of the new LGBT Center, 4337 Manchester Avenue.

Thanks St. Louis for remembering Harvey; we made him proud.

Shalom,
Ed Reggi
ShowMeNoHate

Monday, February 28, 2011

LET OUR PEOPLE MARRY!


Today, California’s largest newspaper, the Los Angeles Times, published an editorial which argued that same-sex couples should be allowed to marry, starting immediately.

Last week, pro-marriage equality attorneys filed a brief with the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals, urging it to lift the stay of the district court decision that ruled Prop. 8 unconstitutional, which would enable marriages to resume. Today’s Los Angeles Times editorial underscores the growing consensus that same-sex couples should not have to wait to get married while the California Prop. 8 case works its way through the very complicated Federal legal system.

“Enough already,” the Los Angeles Times editorial board declared. “…Every day that the case drags on, couples who would like to marry are being deprived of their civil rights. That's not our wording; the federal trial judge decided that issue, at least for now. The denial of constitutional rights, even temporarily, is a deplorable situation that must meet high legal standards to be allowed to continue. In our view, those conditions have not been met.”

Please read the full editorial on the Los Angeles Times website, and to share it with your friends and family on Facebook and Twitter.

UNITY IN OUR COMMUNITY

Show Me No Hate and Robyn Carolyn Montague of TransHaven, have sat down together on Monday February 28 and talked through our differences.

We are moving forward with producing a joint event around oppression in the LGBT community.

Please stay tuned.

Saturday, February 26, 2011

EDIE WINDSOR TALKS

ACLU Client Edie Windsor Responds to Obama Administration's DOMA Decision

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

LIVE, LAUGH, AND LOVE - A BENEFIT FOR KATHY HARVEY



St Louis has one of the most giving and caring communities of them all and no one gives more of her time and energy than Kathy Harvey and her partner, Trish Bush. I know many of you work for other establishments and other organizations but I hope we can all come together this one night because this is different. Few in this community can say they haven't seen a cause touched by Trish and Kathy, regardless of the organization or location.

Barely a week goes by that these two are not first in line to support a cause, and many times multple causes in one night. Now the time has come for us to all share in the love and support Kathy gives all of us in helping to raise money to offset medical expenses as Kathy bravely wins her battle with cancer.

Please join us for an evening of great music, laughter, performers, raffles, 50/50, jello shots and most of all LOVE, and help give back to someone the selflessly gives of herself. On the bill already are performances by Dieta Pepsi and Trish Bush, Justen Espey, Nikki Sweets, Earl Jones, a drag queen/king show at 9 hosted by Ms Pepsi, drawings for gifts cards from Luvy Duvy's, artwork by Deanna Chafin, Arlene Ligori and Janiece Senn, bottles of liquor, an Absolutli Goosed gift card, a Pickles Deli gift card,certificates from Sashas on Shaw and Mokabees, a JC Penny gift card, a Smelly Things Candle Company Basket, photographs from Todd Alan, bar tabs, goodies from Merbs, a Three Monkeys gift cert, a basket of coffee goodies from Kaldi's compliments of Sergio Hernendez, a basket full of retro candy, a Mastercard/Visa gift card courtesy of Transhaven, a Just John gift certificate and much more!

All proceeds, including all door cover until 10pm, go directly to Kathy. A suggested door cover of $10 is requested but not required. We look forward to seeing so many of you from all the organizations Kathy and Trish have helped in the past. If you have anything that can be used in the raffle, or want to perform, please follow this link:

http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=183490195017962

When:
Saturday, February 26 · 6:00pm - 10:00pm

Location:
Novaks Bar and Grill
4121 Manchester Ave

Monday, February 7, 2011

100 MARRIAGES STRONG



Our 8th Marriage Equality bus leaves during Valentine's week and we have another 15 same-sex couples heading toward Iowa. When we return to St. Louis, we will have reached our 100th wedding in Iowa in less than 19 months.

Wow, now that's something to Celebrate!

What our couples pay:
  • $50 contribution toward their bus seats
  • $35 Iowa State Marriage License
  • food expenses

What your contribution pays:

Other expenses are donated by our friends in Iowa or from our community in St. Louis. For example, every Marriage Equality Bus has a professional wedding photographer who generously donates their services. We've also had wedding cakes, flowers and clergy members donate their typical wedding fees. It's estimated over $5,000 of in-kind services are donated for each bus.


Saturday, December 18, 2010

DADT: THE END OF DISCRIMINATION




THE WHITE HOUSE
Office of the Press Secretary
December 18, 2010

Statement by the President on the Don't Ask, Don't Tell Repeal Act of 2010
Today, the Senate has taken an historic step toward ending a policy that undermines our national security while violating the very ideals that our brave men and women in uniform risk their lives to defend. By ending “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” no longer will our nation be denied the service of thousands of patriotic Americans forced to leave the military, despite years of exemplary performance, because they happen to be gay. And no longer will many thousands more be asked to live a lie in order to serve the country they love.

As Commander-in-Chief, I am also absolutely convinced that making this change will only underscore the professionalism of our troops as the best led and best trained fighting force the world has ever known. And I join the Secretary of Defense and the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, as well as the overwhelming majority of service members asked by the Pentagon, in knowing that we can responsibly transition to a new policy while ensuring our military strength and readiness.

I want to thank Majority Leader Reid, Senators Lieberman and Collins and the countless others who have worked so hard to get this done. It is time to close this chapter in our history. It is time to recognize that sacrifice, valor and integrity are no more defined by sexual orientation than they are by race or gender, religion or creed. It is time to allow gay and lesbian Americans to serve their country openly. I urge the Senate to send this bill to my desk so that I can sign it into law.

###

LAME DUCK NOT SO LAME AFTER ALL




'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' Clears Vital Hurdle
by The Associated Press
December 18, 2010

In a landmark vote for gay rights, the Senate on Saturday voted to advance legislation that would overturn the military ban on openly gay troops known as "don't ask, don't tell."

The 63-33 test vote all but guarantees the legislation will pass the Senate, possibly by day's end, and reach the president's desk before the new year.

The House had passed an identical version of the bill, 250-174, earlier this week.

Repeal would mean that, for the first time in American history, gays would be openly accepted by the military and could acknowledge their sexual orientation without fear of being kicked out.

More than 13,500 service members have been dismissed under the 1993 law.

Rounding up a filibuster-proof majority in the Senate was a historic victory for President Barack Obama, who made repeal of the 17-year-old policy a campaign promise in 2008. It also was a political triumph for congressional Democrats who struggled in the final hours of the postelection session to overcome GOP objections on several legislative priorities before Republicans regain control of the House in January.

"As Barry Goldwater said, 'You don't have to be straight to shoot straight,"' said Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid (D-NV), referring to the late GOP senator from Arizona.

Even after the measure were to become law, the policy change wouldn't go into effect right away. Obama and his military advisers would have to certify that the change wouldn't hurt the ability of troops to fight, and there would also be a 60-day waiting period.

Some have predicted the process could take as long as a year before the Bill Clinton-era policy is repealed.

Sen. John McCain, Obama's GOP rival in 2008, led the opposition. Speaking on the Senate floor minutes before the vote, the Arizona Republican acknowledged he didn't have the votes to stop the bill. He blamed elite liberals with no military experience for pushing their social agenda on troops during wartime.

"They will do what is asked of them," McCain said of service members. "But don't think there won't be a great cost."

In the end, enough GOP senators broke with their party and swung behind repeal after a recent Pentagon study concluded the ban could be lifted without hurting the ability of troops to fight.

Advocacy groups who lobbied hard for repeal hailed the vote as a significant step forward in gay rights. The Servicemembers Legal Defense Network called the issue the "defining civil rights initiative of this decade."

Supporters of repeal filled the visitor seats overlooking the Senate floor, ready to protest had the bill failed.

"This has been a long fought battle, but this failed and discriminatory law will now be history," said Joe Solmonese, president of the Human Rights Campaign.

The Pentagon study found that two-thirds of service members didn't think changing the law would have much of an effect. But of those who did predict negative consequences, a majority were assigned to combat arms units. Nearly 60 percent of the Marine Corps and Army combat units, such as infantry and special operations, said in the survey they thought repealing the law would hurt their units' ability to fight.

The Pentagon's uniformed chiefs are divided on whether this resistance might pose serious problems.

Marine Corps Commandant Gen. James Amos has said he thinks lifting the ban during wartime could cost lives.

"I don't want to lose any Marines to the distraction," he told reporters this week. "I don't want to have any Marines that I'm visiting at Bethesda [Naval Medical Center] with no legs be the result of any type of distraction."

Adm. Mike Mullen and Marine Gen. James Cartwright, the chairman and vice chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, respectively, have said the fear of disruption is overblown. They note the Pentagon's finding that 92 percent of troops who believe they have served with a gay person saw no effect on their units' morale or effectiveness. Among Marines in combat roles who said they have served alongside a gay person, 84 percent said there was no impact.

Saturday, December 11, 2010

PEACE, LOVE & JOURNALISM

Schedule for Saturday's Online Organizing and Community Building Workshop

So several local St. Louis bloggers have been thinking a lot over the past few months about how we can build a better sense of community among the people who create, consume, and share the information that progressives care about in the St. Louis region. As an initial step in this direction, we're having an Online Organizing and Community Building Workshop this Saturday from 9 AM to 4 PM at the Regional Arts Commission on Delmar. It will be free, but RSVPs are required.

Here's a slightly more detailed schedule for the training than is on the facebook page:

  • 9 AM to 9:30 AM Introductions (bagels and coffee provided): In addition to the great workshops, a huge part of the value of this gathering will be the opportunity to network with other bloggers, citizen journalists, activists and assorted wonderful progressives. Please try to be there at 9 AM sharp to help kick start the conversation about how we can build a stronger community.

  • 9:30 AM to 10:30 AM Adam Shriver will be facilitating a discussion among a great panel of guests about the current political situation in Missouri. There will be a number of huge, important political fights coming up in the next year that will inevitably shape the trajectory of our work. The panel will include Sean from FiredUp Missouri, Lara Granich of Missouri Jobs with Justice, as well as Paula Hodges and Otto Fanjen from the Missouri National Educators Association. All of these panelists will have an excellent big picture perspective on the issues that will be front and center in 2011.

  • 10:30 to 11 AM The brilliant Sylvester Brown, former Post-Dispatch columnist and currently collaborating with Tavis Smiley, will discuss the state of the media. Understanding the limitations of our media's ability and willingness to cover the issues we care about will provide helpful context as we think about how we can improve our ability to create, organize, and communicate important information.

  • 11 to 11:30 AM Adam Shriver be discussing a new project that's been developed to help foster community among progressive journalists and online activists, as well as create an incubator for progressive citizen journalism. This project will provide a vehicle for progressive ideas to find a larger audience, and will help to provide a shared knowledge base that can inform our future activism.

  • 11:30 AM to 12:30 PM Workshop Session A:
    Option 1: Blogging 101 with Clark from Show Me Progress
    Option 2: Telling a Story Through Video with Ed Reggi from Show Me No Hate
    Option 3: Search Engine Optimization with Jaelithe Judy of Momocrats and Care2,com

  • 12:30 to 1:30 PM Lunch on your own (but highly encouraged to network with others and don't go to a sit-down place!)

  • 1:30 to 2:30 PM:
    Option 1: Online Community Building Discussion
    Option 2: Getting audio from progressive events and podcasting with Peter Jones
    Option 3: Working with Traditional Media with Ed Reggi from Show Me No Hate

  • 2:30 to 3:30 PM: Workshops by Suggestion (throughout the day, we'll ask for suggestions on what people would like to learn about or teach about, and this will be the time for these improvised trainings and discussion)

  • 3:30 to 4 PM Debrief and Moving Forward

A huge thanks to the Regional Arts Commission for hosting us, and to the AFL-CIO, AFSCME, Missouri Jobs with Justice, and FiredUp Missouri for sponsoring the event. Thanks also to Gloria and Stacy from Occasional Planet and Jerome Bauer for project-related help, and to Juan Montana from Cherokee Photo Booth for some excellent advice and assistance. Also special thanks to Adam Shriver and Sean from FiredUp for taking care of a lot of the logistics.

Thursday, December 2, 2010

SURVIVING SAME-SEX PARTNER OF STATE TROOPER SEEKS FAIRNESS



Kelly Glossip's partner of nearly 15 years, Dennis Engelhard, was a Missouri state trooper killed in the line of duty while responding to an accident on Christmas Day of last year. Survivor benefits not available to Glossip.

SURVIVING PARTNER OF MISSOURI STATE TROOPER CHALLENGES BENEFITS POLICY

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
December 2, 2010

Surviving Partner Of Missouri State Trooper Killed On Duty Challenges Discriminatory Benefits Policy Same-Sex Couples Excluded From Receiving Survivor Benefits

JEFFERSON CITY, MO – The American Civil Liberties Union, the ACLU of Eastern Missouri and the ACLU of Kansas & Western Missouri filed a lawsuit today on behalf of Kelly Glossip, whose partner, Dennis Engelhard, was a state trooper killed in the line of duty while responding to an accident on Christmas Day of last year. Missouri offers survivor benefits to spouses of state troopers who are killed in the line of duty, but excludes committed same-sex partners from receiving those benefits. Glossip is seeking the same survivor benefits provided to opposite-sex partners.

“Dennis and I loved each other and lived in a committed relationship for 15 years. We depended on each other emotionally and financially in our life together like any other committed couple. We exchanged rings and would have married in Missouri if the state didn’t exclude us from marriage,” said Glossip. “I‘m just seeking the same financial protections the state provides to heterosexual couples. It is hard enough coping with the grief of losing Dennis. It is even more painful to have the state treat Dennis and me as though we were total strangers.”

Spouses of Missouri State Highway Patrol employees are entitled to an annuity of 50 percent of the employee’s average salary if the employee is killed on duty. Since Engelhard’s death, Glossip has struggled with paying the mortgage on the home they both owned. While Glossip is not challenging the definition of marriage under Missouri law, he is challenging the benefits policy as a violation of his rights under the Missouri Constitution.

“Dennis and Kelly were a family in every sense of the word,” said John Knight, staff attorney with the ACLU Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Project. “They owned a home together, shared cars and bank accounts, and Dennis even helped Kelly care for his child from a former marriage. They vowed to take care of each other in good times and in bad. As a matter of basic fairness, Kelly should be entitled to the same security as other bereaved partners of troopers killed in the line of duty.”

Engelhard was struck by a vehicle while responding to an accident on Christmas Day, 2009. Following his death, the governor ordered all U.S. and Missouri flags to be flown at half-staff. Kelly attended a ceremony in Washington, D.C. in May 2010 commemorating the loss of police officers nationwide, and was recognized with a medallion as Engelhard’s surviving partner.

“Kelly is merely seeking the same treatment he would have received if his partner had been a woman, rather than a man,” said Anthony Rothert, Legal Director of the ACLU of Eastern Missouri. “Kelly may not have been able to marry the person of his choice under Missouri state law, but he is still entitled to equal protection and the fundamental right to the family relationship he formed with Dennis Engelhard. He is seeking the same dignity and security for his family that is granted to other state troopers’ families.”

Attorneys on the case include Rothert and Grant R. Doty of the ACLU of Eastern Missouri, Stephen Douglas Bonney of the ACLU of Kansas and Western Missouri, Knight and Joshua Block of the ACLU LGBT Project and Roger K. Heidenreich of SNR Denton.





For more information on this case, including a video, photos and legal documents, please visit: www.aclu.org/glossip

MEDIA CONTACT:
Robyn Shepherd, ACLU National, (212) 519-7829 or 549-2666; media@aclu.org
Debbie Read, ACLU of Eastern Missouri, (314) 652-3114; debbie@aclu-em.org

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

CIVIL UNIONS DON'T WORK



February 22, 2008

Civil unions don't work, says New Jersey panel
by Eric Resnick

Trenton, N.J.--Civil unions are a “failed experiment” and an “invitation to discriminate,” according to a New Jersey state commission set up to study them.

The New Jersey Civil Union Review Commission released its first report on the unions February 19. The review is mandated by the 2006 law creating civil unions, and was released on their first anniversary in that state.

The panel concluded that civil unions create a little-understood, separate category of citizens that is often more vulnerable to federal discrimination.

In hearings last year, the commission listened to witnesses from around the state, as well as from Vermont, the first state to create civil unions, and Massachusetts, the first one to adopt marriage equality.

The Vermont witnesses reported problems similar to those in New Jersey, while by contrast, Massachusetts reported that marriage equality cured the disparity between committed same-sex and opposite-sex couples.

The findings could affect other states and the current presidential campaign. New Hampshire and Connecticut also have civil unions, which purport to grant all the state rights of marriage without the word itself, while Oregon and California have very similar domestic partnerships.

Both Democratic presidential candidates, Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton, oppose marriage equality in favor of civil unions. Republicans John McCain and Mike Huckabee oppose both.

The two Democrats, both attorneys, say that civil unions are equal to marriage. The New Jersey report refutes that claim.

The report highlights the testimony of New Jersey State Bar Association president Lynn Fontaine Newsome, who said, “From the Bar’s perspective, civil unions are a failed experiment. They have shown to perpetuate unacceptable second-class legal status.”

Newsome told the commission that the arrangement requires that lawyers spend “countless additional hours of work” representing gays, lesbians, bisexuals and their families.

Newsome’s testimony was echoed by Ed Barocas, speaking for the ACLU of New Jersey.

“By creating a separate system of rights and by injecting language and titles not understood or easily incorporated into existing real life events and transactions, the civil union law has failed to fulfill its promise of equality,” Barocas said.

Experts from Vermont, which has had civil unions since 2000, told the commission that they are not likely to improve the lives of same-sex couples with the passage of time, either. Their state set up a similar commission last year to compare civil unions to full marriage. Its report is due in April.

The commission also heard from Massachusetts representatives that the mere use of the word “marriage” for same-sex couples makes a significant difference in providing equality.

The Massachusetts witnesses testified that same sex couples there do not face many of the problems that New Jersey and Vermont civil union couples do, even with the federal Defense of Marriage Act, because everyone knows what marriage is, and the couple’s status is never questioned.

Partners often have no benefits

The report elaborates on ten consistent themes.

First, many employers are not recognizing civil union partners for spousal health benefits because they are governed by a federal law, not the state one that requires them to.

The federal Employment Retirement Income Security Act, or ERISA, uses words like “spouses,” “husbands and wives,” and “married couples” in its benefits guidelines for self-insured employers.

While such companies may also cover civil union partners, the law--coupled with the federal DOMA--gives them a loophole to avoid it without obviously discriminating.

Companies in New Jersey and Vermont are doing this, while in Massachusetts, with marriage equality, employers don’t question their obligation to the couples.

“It’s not that ERISA-covered employers in Massachusetts don’t understand that federal law allows them to refrain from providing benefits to same-sex married couples,” testified Tom Barbera, a vice president of the Massachusetts AFL-CIO. “It’s that employers also understand that without the term ‘civil union’ to hide behind, if they don’t give equal benefits to employees in same-sex marriages, these employers would have to come forth with the real excuse for discrimination.”

Marriage is recognized by everyone

“A common theme in the testimony gathered by the Commission was that while marriage is universally recognized by the public, civil union status must be explained repeatedly to employers, doctors, nurses, insurers, teachers, soccer coaches, emergency room personnel, and the children of civil union partners,” the report continues.

The commission found that young children raised by civil union couples have difficulty understanding the nature of the relationship.

Witnesses testified at great length about unequal treatment that civil union couples face during health crises, because there is no place on forms to recognize partners and confusion about what they are.

That confusion also extends to dealings with banks, insurance companies, attempts to change names, and even to responding to questions for jury duty.

Dr. Sylvia Rhue of the National Black Justice Coalition testified that “the couples who get hurt the most are poor couples who are often African-American couples, who cannot afford thousands of dollars to hire fancy lawyers to draft documents like wills, health care proxies, and powers of attorney.”

Similar testimony was given by Rev. Anahi Galante, an interfaith minister who works with Latinos and Latinas, who typically earn $25,000 per year less than their white couple counterparts.

‘Don’t ask, don’t CU’

Representing the New Jersey State Bar Association, attorney Leslie Farber testified on behalf of a of a couple where one partner is a member of the military, and about to be deployed.

“My client wants to protect his committed life partner,” said Farber, “so that his partner leaves stateside with as many protections and benefits as he can.”

“A New Jersey civil union may be able to provide many of those benefits and protections,” Farber continued. “But a designation of ‘civil union’ is a factual statement this serviceman is a gay man and thus violates the U.S. military’s policy of ‘don’t ask don’t tell.’ ”

Farber also represents a client whose marriage status could be called into question by the civil union law.

That client remains married to the same woman after her sexual reassignment surgery.

When the couple became a same-sex one, the civil union law put the rights and benefits the couple had under their marriage at risk of being downgraded.

The commission, which is part of the state’s Division on Civil Rights, is comprised of 13 citizens appointed by the governor, senate speaker, assembly speaker, attorney general and representatives of banking, insurance, health, social services, senior services.

Governor John Corzine, who signed the civil union law into effect, said in a statement that the report “does raise significant concerns about whether the [civil union] law has effectively granted same-sex couples the same rights and benefits of every other family in the state.”

At press time, neither Democratic presidential campaign has issued a statement.

The panel made no recommendations, saying only that it will continue to investigate the effect of civil unions until its mandate ends in February 2010.

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

HEARTLAND TRANSPORT at the Tivoli




Heartland Transport is PLAYING IN ST. LOUIS at the St. Louis International Film Festival this Sunday November 21, 8:30pm at the Tivoli.

Heartland Transport, is winning the hearts of audiences all over the United States. This short documentary tells the story of 17 same-sex couples who leave St. Louis, Missouri to obtain their marriage licenses in Iowa.

On April 3, 2009, the Iowa Supreme court unanimously upheld the ruling holding that there was no governmental interest in denying citizens marriage licenses based on their sexual orientation.

Immediately following, Ed Reggi and Scott Emanuel chartered a bus taking seventeen same sex couples from St. Louis, Missouri to Iowa City, Iowa to be legally married. Since that first bus, Reggi and Emanuel have chartered 7 buses and successfully helped transport 89 couples to Iowa, where they were legally married.

Heartland Transport is presented at this years' Saint Louis International Film Festival before "Leo’s Room (El cuarto de Leo)” screening on Sunday November 21st at 8:30pm.

see movie information http://www.cinemastlouis.org/leo%E2%80%99s-room

see festival information http://www.cinemastlouis.org/

see ticket information http://www.cinemastlouis.org/tickets

PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD ABOUT THIS SCREENING

Friday, October 1, 2010

BRAVE NEW WORLD



Please visit 50 www.psychologydegree.com and check out the article "Brave Blog Posts About Coming Out."

Patricia Duggan the owner and author of the blog has done an outstanding job gathering very important resources.

Excerpt:

One of the most important, impactful moments of a gay, lesbian, bisexual, transsexual, asexual, pansexual or queer individual’s life is finally breaking free from the socially-constructed closet and accepting that particular facet. The decision to come out comes fraught with a maelstrom of psychological, social, filial, emotional, mental and physical stresses – and due to the GLBTQ community’s status as marginalize minorities, they also have to fear discrimination, intolerance and (saddest of all) violence. Not to mention criminalization, occasionally punishable by death, in some nations. Because of this, it takes an impressive amount of personal integrity and strength to slough off society’s heteronormative expectations and be true to one’s own self. These incredibly brave blog posts represent a broad spectrum – though most of them sport positive and hopeful tones – of people coming forth to proudly accept their sexuality and asking loved ones for their support.

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

DON'T ASK DON'T TELL ED MARTIN, THAT HE'S A BIGOT

The League of Women Voters helped arrange for two public debates featuring the candidates for the 3rd District congressional seat, including Democratic incumbent Russ Carnahan, Republican Ed Martin and Constitutional Party Nicholas Ivanovich.

The following video was from the debates held on September 26 in the gymnasium at the Arnold Community Center. It was fully stuffed with angry white tea baggers who were there at 4:30 pm to support their tea bag king Ed "I was fired from my state job because I broke the law" Martin.

The clip is the answer each candidate gave to my question, "Do you support DADT."



Russ Carnahan was the only candidate who supports the repeal of DADT. The other two candidates gave some cock and bull about our military couldn't handle some kind of radical social engineering experiment. When are conservatives going to understand that 80% of America supports the repeal of Dont Ask Dont Tell.

When is Ed Martin going to get that this is not about Gay Marriage?

When will Ed Martin stop promoting homophobia?

When will Ed Martin listen to the Military leaders who also support the repeal of DADT?

Several us in the audience lost it when Ed Martin wouldn't answer the question. So we screamed, "Answer the Question," and he did.

Now take a look at the debates held on Friday September 24th in the City of Saint Louis. Ed Martin spins a different tune claiming to be for everyone.


Will the real Ed Martin please stand up?